MEN VZ WOMEN

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And here I will discuss "MEN ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS". Surely you wonder about the story? what's the matter with Mars and Venus? Well, here I will discuss it, OK, let's just start.

 At first in the solar system there were several planets that were close to one another, namely planet Venus, Earth and Mars. But the only inhabitants of the planet are Venus and Mars and the unique thing is that on every planet there is only one type of inhabitant. The men are from Mars and women are from Venus. (It's strange indeed, but this is just a story).

Men Are Like Rubber

Men regularly take refuge when they suddenly fear that their independence is threatened. At this time they might be completely unapproachable, demanding the right to be left alone and allowed not to express their feelings, but if given support by being given space for a few moments, they will immediately feel better and return to their self-love alone once more.

So, when men retreat into themselves they can help their partners not to be too worried or offended by giving a brief guarantee that they will return in time. Women must resist the temptation to try to drag their partners back prematurely or criticize them for this natural behavior.

Men periodically retreat when suddenly they are afraid that their independence is in danger. At these times they become unapproachable and want to be alone and do not have to express their feelings. If they are allowed to be independent and get the space they need, they will immediately feel better and return to normal.

 Women like waves

Women regularly sink into depression when they feel it's time for cleaning and emotional resolution. At these times, they may become very negative in their view, thinking about every problem that is bothering them, including old problems that will generally be raised and dealt with beforehand, and if they cannot find real problems to concentrate, then they will find some random things to worry about.

They postpone their normal nature, demand the right to express their feelings and are not left alone, and if supported and allow enough time to express and release their negative feelings, they will begin to feel happier and return to their habits. love yourself. Delays where they sink into depression and then recover may be difficult for men to handle.

At times when women are drowning in themselves, they can help their partners not to be too worried or offended by giving a brief certainty that it is not their partner's fault. Men must resist the temptation to try to lift their partners back prematurely or criticize them for this natural behavior.

Men demand the right to be free from time to time; women demand the right to be heard from time to time. When a man feels free, he feels easier to support a woman's need to be heard; when a woman feels heard, she feels easier to support a man's need to be friends.

 How to Avoid Arguments

Communication between relationship partners must be loving and respectful; verbal attacks otherwise are very destructive. Often not so much is said that causes damage, but the tone of voice and body language that accompany it.

The argument develops in men who fail to give enough attention to the feelings of women, and women critically disagree with men. One may be the initial trigger, because a man's impatience can cause a woman to become angry and express disapproval, and a woman's disapproval can cause a man to be defensive and stop listening to his feelings.

When men make mistakes, they become frustrated and angry, and should be left alone until they are calm.

When engaged in an argument, men use strong and aggressive words to ensure that they win the argument, and women are often forced to retreat in the face of truly stubborn opponents. Men tend to do it by withdrawing and refusing to speak; women often just pretend that disputes have been forgotten. The peace that is produced is something cold, because the issues continue to festering that have not been resolved.

To stop slumping communication into contention, men must try to listen without being defensive, and women must try to express their feelings without criticizing their partners.

Okay, I feel this is enough to share the differences between male and female feelings. Thank you for ur reading, I hope you are entertained and useful to meet in the next story.💗💗💗